I woke up this morning with a sharp pain in the back. Neglecting it as usual and blaming it to the previous night's mundane chores. No, I ain't even remotely referring to my 5 years of marriage at all!
With all my due respects to the beautiful bond we share, husbands do they ever change???
The pain was impending for a few days now which i was deliberately ignoring not because I dread getting old but because I hate taking medication. I am immune to a certain lot of pain. But medication is something I would avoid like plague. Back to the pain in the back..why my head keeps ringing a bell: pain and men in the same tone?.. I really wonder why ?
Husbands; so much of a research I am sure is incomplete because Men may have never found a reason to attempt to initiate any and women too engrossed in all the minute details to consolidate the facts!
Having said that when I was a little girl I wondered how beautiful it is to find a man of my dreams, to love him with all my heart, raise a child. The dream is indeed fulfilled beyond expectations with a slight distraction, I married a Man and I made him a husband.
We keep blaming husbands don't listen but have we particularly ever noticed how much we women need to talk. I did, I speak in a day how much my husband would in a week or am I exaggerating? Ohk its more than week. Moving ahead we wont dwell too much on me talking!! My husband for sure will agree it is all meaningful considering he has not even heard a quarter of it at all. Over the years men have beautifully mastered the art of convenience listening. My experience says when his responses are monosyllables, we are good, Its when he sits up and is a part of the conversation which sets me worrying!!
Of course women have so much to share, so much to express, why interrupt the smooth flow of thoughts, is what men have for an perfect excuse.
Ignoring the innate quality of men which is so annoying, alright I need to change the tense here, qualities, I may take the liberty of saying they are a perfect companion. They love us, nurture our dreams n faith, Give us hope, take care of us in sickness and complete us as a woman. I absolutely need to give full credit to man-kind to share with us the fruit of their loins. Having the ability to make a woman mother is one of the most precious gift.
Women talk- Men listen, I give u a kiss you give me a hug, I shop- u pay the bills, I cook, he does the dishes, I choose the color- u paint the walls, I feed the baby- you change his nappies et al. Its that simple!
Nature has assigned Man and Woman individual roles, If we each did respect that, life would be the perfect harmony we talk about and yearn for.
Honie...I am done with writing the blog, could you please help me do the spell check and upload it for me.
It really works. Make the Man feel like he is YOUR man and he would do anything for his damsel in distress!!
